B2B Has Always Been About Relationships

September 3, 2026

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Brent W Peterson

I am no longer in my 20s and may have been around the block a few times. I remember writing socket connections to ancient ERP systems and the AS400. Those were the days, right? When “cutting-edge” meant not having to reboot your system every hour.

Fast forward to today, and I am still trying to keep up with the latest trends. I read Ann Handley‘s last newsletter, where she listed several ins and outs for 2025. One that stuck out to me was Emotional B2B Marketing. I had to think for a minute. (Ok, in my case, an hour.) This concept of emotional B2B marketing is not entirely new, though. It took me back to my days at Wagento, where we launched the first Magento Commerce B2B site. During that time, I had many opportunities to learn how old-school B2B was grappling with its transition into the digital world. The mantra I heard repeatedly was that B2B sales is all about relationships, and bringing that online would never work. Sound familiar?

But here is the kicker: those relationships are not built on spreadsheets and ROI calculations alone. They are built on trust, understanding, and yes, emotions.

The Myth of the Purely Rational B2B Buyer

We have been fed this idea that B2B decisions are all spreadsheets and logic. That is about as accurate as my first marathon time prediction. (Spoiler: I was off by an hour and turned into a whiny baby.)

Here is a number that might surprise you: 69% of senior marketing leaders agree that B2B purchasing decisions are just as emotionally driven as B2C. The research emphasizes that effective emotional marketing goes beyond simply touching imagery or festive design elements. It is about connecting with buyers on a deeper level and addressing their emotional needs, fears, and desires.

Why? Because businesses do not make decisions. People do. Building that trust in public is what thought leadership content is for. And last time I checked, people are not robots.

Think about it: behind every purchase order, every contract, and every partnership, there is a human being making a decision. These decision-makers do not leave their emotions at the door when they enter the office. They bring their whole selves.

Consider this scenario: two vendors offer similar products at comparable prices. One has cultivated a relationship built on trust, responsiveness, and understanding. The other is all facts and figures. Which one do you think gets the contract? Jason Parrish of Altus Nova makes the same point about platform vendors in the B2B Commerce Trends and Opportunities Report, that the feature checklist is critical and the ability to pick up the telephone, call someone, and get a response is as critical.

Even in the most data-driven organizations, decisions are influenced by factors like:

  • Trust in the vendor’s reliability
  • Confidence in the support team
  • Alignment with personal or company values
  • Past experiences and gut feelings
  • Fear of making the wrong choice

These are not just nice-to-haves. They are the invisible forces that tip the scales when all other factors are equal. And in today’s competitive B2B landscape, factors are often equal.

It Has Always Been About Relationships

Before the internet, before AI, before we all became slaves to our inboxes, B2B was built on relationships. It was about trust, handshakes, and maybe a round of golf.

Have you ever watched Mad Men? Set in the 1960s advertising world, it brilliantly showcases how business was built on relationships. Don Draper and his team did not just sell ads. They sold trust, understanding, and a shared vision of success. They knew their clients’ hopes and fears, their dreams and insecurities. Sure, they had the data and the demographics, but their real magic lay in their ability to connect emotionally with clients and consumers. It was B2B and B2C emotional marketing before we had fancy terms for it.

These relationships extended beyond mere logic and ROI. They revolved around mutual understanding, shared experiences, and respect. In essence, they were rooted in emotion.

Strategies for Emotional B2B Marketing

So, how do we bring that relationship-building magic into the digital age? Here are a few ideas:

  1. Humanize your brand: Show the people behind your logo. Share stories. Be authentic. (Yes, even if your authentic self includes bad dad jokes. Trust me, it works.)
  2. Personalization and AI: Use tech to create tailored experiences, but do not forget the human touch. AI should enhance your relationships, not replace them.
  3. Account-Based Marketing (ABM): Create customized approaches for key accounts. It is like training for a specific marathon course instead of just running generic miles.

The Power of Influencer Marketing in B2B

Influencer marketing is no longer just for B2C. B2B is about leveraging trusted voices in your industry. It is like having a running buddy vouch for your favorite shoes. Their endorsement carries weight because they have put in the miles.

Human-Centric Marketing: The Future of B2B

4 in 5 B2B marketers are focusing on human-centric strategies. Making customers feel understood and valued is not just good manners. It is good business.

Balancing Emotion and Logic

I am not saying we should ignore data. (I have been tempted to do that with my GPS watch during particularly tough races.) The key is to use data to inform your strategy but let emotion drive the connection.

In B2B, just like in marathons, the finish line is not the end. It is the beginning of the next race. The relationships you build today will define your business tomorrow. So start building them with heart, not just with spreadsheets.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Fast forward to today, and I am still trying to keep up with the latest trends. I read Ann Handley‘s last newsletter, where she listed several ins and outs for 2025. One that stuck out to me was Emotional B2B Marketing. I had to think for a minute. (Ok, in my case, an hour.) This concept of emotional B2B marketing is not entirely new, though. It took me back to my days at Wagento, where we launched the first Magento Commerce B2B site. During that time, I had many opportunities to learn how old-school B2B was grappling with its transition into the digital world. The mantra I heard repeatedly was that B2B sales is all about relationships, and bringing that online would never work. Sound familiar?

But here is the kicker: those relationships are not built on spreadsheets and ROI calculations alone. They are built on trust, understanding, and yes, emotions.

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